Showing posts with label purpose. Show all posts
Showing posts with label purpose. Show all posts

Saturday, April 7, 2012

DAY 40 MAN OF SORROWS (video)





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CHAPTER 40 - LIVING WITH PURPOSE

Living on purpose is the only way to really live. Everything else is just existing. 

Most people struggle with three basic issues in life. The first is identity: "Who am I?" The second is importance: "Do I matter?" The third is impact: "What is my place in life?" The answers to all three questions are found in God's five purposes for you. (See Day 39 post)

It's easy to drift away from what matters most and slowly get off course. To prevent this, you should develop a purpose statement for your life and then review it regularly. 

WHAT IS A LIFE PURPOSE STATEMENT? 
  • It's a statement that summarized God's purposes for your life 
  • It's a statement that points the direction of your life
  • It's a statement that defines "success" for you 
  • It's a statement that clarifies your roles
  • It's a statement that expresses your shape
LIFE'S FIVE GREATEST QUESTIONS

1. What will be the center of my life?

2. What will be the character of my life?

3. What will be the contribution of my life? 

4. What will be the communication of my life? 

5. What will be the community of my life? 

Point to Ponder: Living with purpose is the only way to really live

Verse to Remember: "For David...served the purpose of God in his own generation." Acts 13:36 (NASB)

Question to Consider: When will I take the time to write down my answers to life's five great questions? When will I put my purpose on paper? 



Friday, April 6, 2012

Day 39 - Surely this man was the Son of God!


With a loud cry, Jesus breathed his last. The curtain of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom. And when the centurion, who stood there in front of Jesus, saw how he died, he said, “Surely this man was the Son of God!”  – Mark 15:37-39 (NIV)

How could an act of weakness, such as a man dying on a cross, cause this kind of response in an elite Roman soldier? In the Jewish temple there was a place called the Holy of holies. A heavy curtain covered the entrance; separated unholy man from a holy God. When that curtain was ripped in two the separation between God and man was gone. Suddenly the centurion saw what he couldn’t see before: Jesus was not an ordinary man, but God’s very act of reconciliation. Can you see that? Or do you still see just a man on a cross?
 (Dave Whitehead, Senior Pastor Grace Church NY)

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CHAPTER 39 - BALANCING YOUR LIFE


Blessed are the balanced; they shall outlast everyone.

Your life is a pentathlon of five purposes, which you must keep in balance. These purposes were practiced by the first Christians in Acts 2, explained by Paul in Ephesians 4, and modeled by Jesus in John 17, but they are summarized in the Great Commandment  and the Great Commission of Jesus. These two statements sum up what this book is all about -- God's five purposes for your life:

1. "Love God with all your heart": You were planned for God's pleasure, so your purpose is to love God through worship


2. "Love your neighbor as yourself": You were shaped for serving, so your purpose is to show love for others through ministry


3. "Go and make disciples": You were made for a mission, so your purpose is to share God's message through evangelism.

4. "baptize them into...": You were formed for God's family, so your purpose is to identify with his church through fellowship.

5. "teach them to do all things...": You were created to become like Christ, so your purpose is to grow to maturity through discipleship
Point to Ponder: Blessed are the balanced


Verse to Remember: "Live life with a due sense of responsibility, not as those who do not now the meaning of life but as those who do." Ephesians 5:15 (Ph)


Question to Consider: Which of the four activities will I begin in order to stay on track and balance God's five purpose for my life?







Day 38 - Becoming a World Class Christian


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CHAPTER 38 - BECOMING A WORLD CLASS CHRISTIAN


The Great Commission is your commission.

You have a choice to make. You will be either a world-class Christian or a worldly Christian.

Worldly Christian: 
  • look to God for personal fulfillment 
  • saved, but self-centered
  • "me-first" faith
World-Class Christian:
  • know they are saved to serve
  • made for a mission and purpose
  • "others-first" faith

How can you shift from a worldly Christian to a world-class Christian? Here are a few ways:

1. Shift from self-centered thinking to other-centered thinking
2. Shift from local thinking to global thinking
3. Shift from "here and now" thinking to eternal thinking
4. Shift from thinking of excuses to thinking of creative ways to fulfill your commission
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Point to Ponder: The Great Commission is my commission


Verse to Remember: "Send us around the world with the news of your saving power and your eternal plan for all mankind." Psalm 67:2 (LB)


Question to Consider: What steps can I take to prepare to go on a short-term missions experience in the next year?

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Day 36 - Part 5 Stress series


Dear Reader

Christopher Lord here and I will conclude the 5 part series on stress to educate you and to assist you in your faith journey.  In the previous blog entries, I introduced the father of modern stress research, Dr. Hans Selye, who discovered the physiological underpinning of the human stress response- the “HPA Axis” which stands for the Hypothalamic- Pituitary- Adrenal Axis that also includes the chemical messengers between these structures, chief among them are the stress hormones, with cortisol being the big player I will focus on.

It was also stated that the “HPA Axis” or the stress response wasn’t necessarily a bad thing but rather a helpful/adaptive strategy to temporarily deal with the demands of increased stress.  The problem came when the need to deal with stress wasn’t temporary after all, but constant/near constant demands that lead to a nasty collection of symptoms that could be built into a syndrome called Cushing’s Syndrome which is associated with weight gain/obesity, musculoskeletal and skin problems as well as sex hormone dysfunction and an overall rough time in life.  I did not go into the mental health effects but I plan to now in this final blog entry.

We have long known in my field that there is a link between depression (“Big D” or Major Depression) and dysfunctional HPA Axis (as well as thyroid gland) but our search for a “chemical test” has remained elusive and unfulfilled because the association between HPA Axis/thyroid dysfunction is strong, it is not across the board and therefore not a good medical test.

So what do we know? We know that HPA Axis dysfunction (in most cases related to cortisol levels) is associated with Mood Disorders (which includes things like Major Depression and Bipolar Disorder) as well as Anxiety  Disorders (what matters with these is the rate of change in cortisol levels rather than just a high level). Additionally, there is HPA Axis dysfunction associated with Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) in which the cortisol response is abnormal, especially in those children who present primarily as hyperactive. HPA dysfunction is also associated with psychotic mental illnesses such as schizophrenia and Major Depression with Psychosis. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (which is technically an Anxiety Disorder) is unsurprisingly associated with abnormalities of cortisol functioning (cortisol levels are actually low- we think that with that population the system actually wears out and other changes happen too). HPA Axis dysfunction is also associated with disruptive behavior in general in young people. Also, and very importantly, HPA Axis dysfunction is also associated with brain damage!

Specifically, chronic stress (in the study I read it was very severe stress) was associated with the loss of brain cells in a part of our brain called the hippocampus, which is associated with learning, verbal memory, as well as memory storage and retrieval, so much so that people were actually cognitively impaired on neuropsychological testing.

There you have it. By no means have I told you the whole story in terms of the deficits associated with long-term, chronic stress and its impact on your mind and body, there are other chemical messengers and systems involved with other deleterious effects.

Re-reading this material and writing these blog entries has reminded me to work harder at relaxing, and trying where I may to take better care of myself and to thank God

“For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.”
-Psalm 139:13-14
 
God’s peace and thank you for the opportunity to be of service

Christopher Lord


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CHAPTER 36 - MADE FOR A MISSION


You were made for a mission.
God is at work in the world, and he wants you to join him. This assignment is called you mission. God wants you to have both a ministry in the Body of Christ and a mission in the world.

Your life mission is both shared and specific. One part of it is a responsibility you share with every other Christian, and the other part is an assignment that is unique to you.

THE IMPORTANCE OF YOUR MISSION
  • Your mission is a continuation of Jesus' mission on earth. 
  • Your mission is a wonderful privilege 
  • Telling others how they can have eternal life is the greatest thing you can do for them
  • Your mission has eternal significance
  • Your mission give your life meaning
  • God's timetable for history's conclusion is connected to the completion of our commission. 
Point to Ponder: I was made for a mission

Verse to Remember: "Go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age." Matthew 28:19-20 (NIV)

Question to Consider: What fears have kept me from fulfilling the mission God made me to accomplish? What keeps me from telling others the Good News? 

Monday, April 2, 2012

Day 35 - let go and let God


Easter week. Time to let go of everything and let God in. God is ready to do what you cannot do yourself. All you need to do is let him in. Will you?
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CHAPTER 35 - GOD'S POWER IN YOUR WEAKNESS


God loves to use weak people.
Everyone has weaknesses. Usually we deny our weaknesses, defend them, excuse them, hide them, and resent them. This prevents God from using them the way he desires.

We think that God only wants to use our strengths, but he also wants to use our weaknesses for his glory. 



  • Admit your weaknesses
  • Be content with your weaknesses 
  • Honestly share your weaknesses
  • Glory in your weaknesses 
Point to Ponder: God works best when I admit my weakness

Verse to Remember: "My grace is sufficient for you, my power is made perfect in weakness." 2 Corinthians 12:9a (NIV)

Question to Consider: Am I limiting God's power in my life by trying to hide my weaknesses? What do I need to be honest about in order to help others? 

Friday, March 30, 2012

Day 33 - The Young Man and the Keys




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CHAPTER 33 - HOW REAL SERVANTS ACT 


We serve God by serving others.

The world defines greatness in terms of power, possessions, prestige, and position. If you can demand service from others, you've arrived. In our self-serving culture with its me-first mentality, acting like a servant is not a popular concept.

Jesus, however, measured greatness in terms of service, not status. God determines your greatness by how many people you serve, not how many people serve you. 


How can you know if you have the heart of a servant? Jesus said, "You can tell what they are by what the do." 


Real servants make themselves available to serve


Real servants pay attention to needs


Real servants do their best with what they have


Real servants do every task with equal dedication


Real servants are faithful to their ministry


Real servants maintain a low profile


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Point to Ponder: I serve God by serving others.


Verse to Remember: "If you give even a cup of cold water to one of the least of my followers, you will surely be rewarded." Matthew 10:42 (NLT)

Question to Consider: Which of the six characteristics of real servants offers the greatest challenge to me?

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Day 32 - Cortisol and too much stress!


Hello again Reader

Christopher E Lord here and I am continuing the blog series on stress and mental/medical health.  I have introduced you to Hans Selye who pioneered modern stress research by discovering the “stress response”, which is the body’s physiological reaction to increased environmental demands and consists of various chemical messengers originating in our brain and travelling throughout our bodies.  This is referred to the “HPA Axis” or Hypothalamic-Pituitary-Adrenal Axis and isn’t necessarily a bad thing by itself, because we need to be able to adapt to stressful demands, but when the HPA Axis doesn’t work correctly (for example, when it is always on); it can have negative medical and mental health consequences.

In this entry, I will focus on the medical consequences of an abnormally functioning HPA Axis.  In the next and final blog entry, I will cover the mental health consequences of an abnormally functioning HPA Axis.

Recall that the HPA Axis consists of a brain structure called the Hypothalamus (which receives information from all over the brain via our sensory system- eyes, ears, smell, etc.) which then communicates with the nearby Pituitary gland (which makes a chemical messenger that is sent outside the brain) to the Adrenal glands (which sit on top of our kidneys) that in turn make chemical messengers that travel all over the body and exert various effects like increasing our heart rates so more blood gets to vital organs  and increasing our blood sugar levels so cells can do more work.  The chemical messengers made by the Adrenal glands are the so-called the “stress hormones” of epinephrine (aka adrenaline) norepinephrine (aka noradrenaline) and cortisol.  Each of these chemical messengers work well and are helpful when they exert their actions temporarily, but that is not the case when they exert their effects over long periods.  There is actually an endocrine disease associated with this, called Cushing’s syndrome (which was discovered 100 years ago by a pioneering neurosurgeon named Harvey Cushing).

Dr. Cushing noted the “syndrome” (which is a medical term meaning a group of symptoms that when seen together suggest a particular disorder) was due to excess exposure to one of the stress hormones (cortisol) which consisted of metabolic problems like rapid weight gain with fat distribution around the midsection (“central obesity” is what we call it) with arms and legs that are usually thin or small by comparison. Additionally, fat may be deposited in unlikely places like the face and upper section of the back.  Also, growth rate can be suppressed as well, which is of course especially applicable to children. Besides these metabolic concerns, excess cortisol can lead to purple-colored stretch marks on the skin around abdomen, thigh, breasts and buttocks, with additional skin thinning, which therefore becomes easily bruised or torn. It doesn’t stop there folks.  Excess cortisol (from the HPA Axis/stress response that is chronically “on”) can also lead to musculoskeletal problems like low back pain (even without exertion) plus bone pain, diminished bone strength therefore more fractures and decreased muscle mass.  Lucky women who have this problem may experience what we call “hirsutism” which is excess hair growth everywhere you don’t want it- face, neck, chest, abdomen and thighs.  Even more significant, excess cortisol may disrupt the menstruation cycle or even stop it all together, which of course leads to fertility problems.
I’m not going to leave out the men either. Besides all the general things listed above, men may also experience decreased libido/sex drive and impotence.

This list reads like a horror story and/or the long list of side effects/disclaimers in a drug company advertisement.  Because cortisol is a “medicine” of sorts (it is just manufactured inside of us with no prescription needed) and because its effects are far-reaching throughout the body, we might well consider these side effects as symptoms that build into a syndrome associated with too much stress.

I did not address the mental health aspects of this, but will in the final blog entry in this series.

God’s peace (and less cortisol if you have enough already)

Christopher E Lord


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CHAPTER 32 - USING WHAT GOD GAVE YOU


God deserves your best.

He shaped you for a purpose, and he expects you to make the most of what you have been given. He doesn't want you to worry about or covet abilities you don't have. Instead he wants you to focus on talents he has given you to use.

Discover Your Shape

  •  Begin by assessing your gifts and abilities 
  • Consider your heart and your personality
  • Examine your experiences and extract lessons you have learned. 
Accept and Enjoy Your Shape

Keep Developing Your Shape

In heaven we are going to serve God forever. Right now, we can prepare for that eternal service by practicing on earth. We're getting ready for eternal responsibilities and rewards. 

Point to Ponder: God deserves my best

Verse to Remember: "Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth." 2 Timothy 2:15 (NIV)

Question to Consider: How can I make the best use of what God as given me? 

Friday, March 23, 2012

Day 27: We Are All Theologians



God wants us to study Him.  Not only by reading our Bibles and studying the scriptures, but by observing His work in the world around us and living out the purpose he has put you on this earth for.  Life isn't just going thru the motions.  It's asking the questions and figuring out WHY and HOW.  "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you a hope and a future."  Jeremiah 29:11  There is just something about believing and claiming this promise for your life that really helps to propel you for seeking out and living your life of purpose!

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CHAPTER 27 - DEFEATING TEMPTATION


There is always a way out.

You may sometimes feel that a temptation is too overpowering for you to bear, but that's a lie from Satan. God has promised never to all more on you than he puts within you to handle it. He will not permit any temptation that you could not overcome. However, you must do your part too by practicing four biblical keys to defeating temptation.

1. Refocus your attention on something else
2. Reveal your struggle to a godly friend or support group
3. Resist the Devil
4. Realize your vulnerability




Point to Ponder: There is always a way out


Verse to Remember: "God is faithful. He will keep the temptation from becoming so strong that you can't stand up against it. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you will not give into it." 1 Corinthians 10:13b (NLT)


Question to Consider: Who could I ask to be a spiritual partner to help me defeat a persistent temptation by praying for me?

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Day 26 - Portion Control


American's are not only getting larger around the waist, but our plate size is increasing as well. According to many nutritionists, Americans have the largest food portion sizes in the world. Our economy encourages us to eat what we want, as much as we want, and whenever we want.  Unfortunately, a combination of "super-sized" portions and poor nutritional quality has led to the fastest growing epidemic in American history, Diabesity. 


In her book Diabesity: The Obesity-Diabetes Epidemic That Threatens America—And What We Must Do to Stop It, Dr. Kaufman explains the roots of diabesity quite simply: "Our ancient genes and our modern environment have collided." Our bodies store excess calories as fat. In ancient times calories were hard to come by. Today, fast food and junk food are everywhere. Coupled with our increasingly inactive lifestyle, the result is obesity.

Many people know they are overweight. Many know they need to change, but they don't. Why? They are unwilling to change their lifestyle and think that they will get bailed out somehow in the end. Unfortunately, obesity is just the start. Diabetes is now a household term and is rising at exponential rates.

It's time to take your health more seriously and that can begin with a simple step: portion control.


Here are the standard portion sizes for one meal:


The following are general portion guidelines to help you. 

Food - One Serving Equals . . . Breads, pasta, cereal, cooked grain, etc.


One slice of bread (size of CD case)
Half a bagel (size of a hockey puck)
One-cup cereal (two hands cupped together)
Half-cup cooked grain or pasta (one cupped palm)

Fruits


One piece of fruit (size of a tennis ball)
Half-cup cut-up fruit, raw, cooked, frozen, or canned (size of seven cotton balls)
One-quarter cup dried fruit
Three quarters cup 100 percent fruit juice

Veggies
Half cup cut up veggie, raw, cooked, frozen, or canned (looks like the bulb part of a lightbulb)
Half-cup cooked, canned or frozen legumes
One-cup leafy greens
Three quarters cup 100 percent vegetable juice

Meat, chicken, or fish
Three ounces (deck of cards or checkbook)
One egg

Dairy
One ounce of cheese (two nine-volt batteries)
Half-cup ice cream, cottage cheese, or pudding
One-cup milk or yogurt


Nuts
One-third cup (small handful)
One-tablespoon nut butter (size of both your thumbs)




When the Promised Land was distributed to the children of Israel all the tribes received a portion of the land except the Levites. The Lord God became their portion. They were to be God-centered and supported with tithes from the other tribes.

Although David was from the tribe of Judah he set the example of being God-centered. He gave his entire fortune of gold and silver to the building of the temple.

In Psalm 119 he pledged to obey God’s word. If God is our portion, we can have as much of him as we want and know that we can never run out of him.


You are my portion, LORD; 
I have promised to obey your words. 
I have sought your face with all my heart; 
   be gracious to me according to your promise. 
I have considered my ways 
   and have turned my steps to your statutes. 
I will hasten and not delay 
   to obey your commands. 
Though the wicked bind me with ropes, 
   I will not forget your law. 
At midnight I rise to give you thanks 
   for your righteous laws. 
I am a friend to all who fear you, 
   to all who follow your precepts. 
The earth is filled with your love, LORD; 
   teach me your decrees.

Psalm 119:57-64 

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CHAPTER 26 - GROWING THROUGH TEMPTATION


Every temptation is an opportunity to do good.

On the path to spiritual maturity, even temptation becomes a stepping stone rather than a stumbling block when you realize that it is just as much an occasion to do the right thing as it is to do the wrong thing. Temptation simply provides the choice.

While temptation is Satan's primary weapon to destroy you, God wants to use it to develop you.
  Every time you choose to to do good instead of sin, you are growing in the character of Christ. 

How do you overcome temptation? Follow these steps:

  • Refuse to be intimidated 
  • Recognize your pattern of temptation and be prepared for it
  • Request God's help
Point to Ponder: Every temptation is an opportunity to do good. 

Verse to Remember: "God blesses the people who patiently endure testing. Afterward they will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him." James 1:12 (NLT)

Question to Consider: What Christlike character quality can I develop by defeating the most common temptation I face? 

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Day 25 - CLASS TONIGHT! 6PM CLC FORUM


WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY ABOUT...

OVERCOMING STRESS?

In today's world it is virtually impossible to avoid stress. Almost everyone is carrying some amount of it, in varying degrees. Many find it increasingly difficult to simply survive in the world we live in. In desperation, people are seeking relief for their problems through any remedy they can find. Our culture is inundated with self-help books, therapists, time-management workshops, massage parlors, and recovery programs (to name just the tip of the iceberg). Everyone talks about returning to a "simpler" way of life, but no one seems to even know exactly what that means, or how to attain it. Many of us cry out like Job, "The churning inside me never stops; days of suffering confront me." (Job 30:27).

Most of us are so used to carrying the burden of stress, we can scarcely imagine our lives without it. We think it is simply an unavoidable part of living in the world. We carry it like a hiker trudging out of the Grand Canyon with a huge pack on his back. The pack seems to be a part of his own weight, and he can't even remember what it was ever like to not be carrying it. It seems that his legs have always been that heavy and his back has always ached under all that weight. Only when he stops to rest for a moment and takes off his pack does he realize just how heavy it really is, and how light and free he is without it.

Unfortunately, most of us cannot just unload stress like a backpack. It seems to be intrinsically woven into the very fabric of our lives. It lurks somewhere beneath our skin (usually in a knot between our shoulderblades). It keeps us up late into the night, just when we need sleep the most. It presses in on us from all sides. Yet, Jesus says, "Come to me all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." (Mt. 11:28-30). Those words have touched the hearts of many, yet they are only words that merely sound comforting and are in essence, worthless, unless they are true. If they are true, how can we apply them to our lives and walk free from the burdens that weigh us down so badly? Perhaps you are responding, "I would love do that if only I knew how!" How can we receive rest for our souls? (to read more go to http://www.bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?id=127)



FIND OUT HOW TO REDUCE YOUR STRESS LEVELS!
TONIGHT @ 6PM CLC FORUM
SEE YOU THERE!

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CHAPTER 25 - TRANSFORMED BY TROUBLE


God has a purpose behind every problem.
He uses circumstances to develop our character. In fact, he depends more on circumstances to make us like Jesus than he depends on our reading the Bible. The reason is obvious: You face circumstances twenty-four hours a day.

No one is immune to pain or insulated from suffering, and no one gets to skate through life problem-free. Life is a series of problems. Every time you solve one, another is waiting to take its place. Not all of them are big, but all are significant in God's growth process for you.

Point to Ponder: There is a purpose behind every problem.

Verse to Remember: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28 (NIV)

Question to Consider: What problem in my life has caused the greatest growth in me?

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Day 24 - Transformed by Truth


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CHAPTER 24 - TRANSFORMED BY TRUTH


The truth transforms us.


Spiritual growth is the process of replacing lies with truth. The Spirit of God used the Word of God to make us like the Son of God. To become like Jesus, we must fill our lives with his Word.


God's Word is unlike any other word. It is alive


In day-to-day living, abiding in God's Word includes three activities:



1. I must accept its authority


2. I must assimilate it's truth


3. I must apply it's principles


What has God already told you to do in his Word that you haven't started doing yet? The Bible was not given to increase our knowledge but to change our lives.



Point to Ponder: The truth transforms me


Verse to Remember: "If you continue in my word, then are you my disciples indeed; and you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." John 8:31-32 (KIV)

Question to Consider: What has God already told me in his Word that I haven't started doing yet?

Monday, March 19, 2012

Day 23 - Morning Smoothie...Delicious!



Start your morning out right with this delicious smoothie! How are you doing with your nutrition changes so far through these 40 days? What results have you seen?

We would LOVE to hear about it and know what your goals for Easter. Comment on this blog or send Elise and email @ elise@healingcuisinebyelise.com

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CHAPTER 23 - HOW WE GROW


God wants you to grow up.

Your heavenly Father's goal is for you to mature and develop the characteristics of Jesus Christ.  Sadly, millions of Christians grow older but never grow up. They are stuck in perpetual spiritual infancy, remaining in diapers and booties. The reason is that they never intended to grow.

Spiritual growth is not automatic. It takes an intentional commitment. You must want to grow, decide to grow, make an effort to grow, and persist in growing. Discipleship - the process of becoming like Christ - always begins with a decision.

Point to Ponder: It is never too late to start growing


Verse to Remember: "Let God transform you inwardly by a complete change of your mind. Then you will be able to know the will of God -- what is good and is pleasing to him and is perfect." Romans 12:2b (TEV)


Question to Consider: What is one area where I need to stop thinking my way and start thinking God's way? 

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Day 20 - Halfway there!


Day 20! You are halfway to your goal of 40 days! It's time to reflect on how your first 20 days went. What positive changes have you made? What results have you seen? Where can improvements be made? What challenges did you face in the first 20 days? What challenges lie ahead? 

How will you be successful in the last 20 days? 

If you haven't committed yet, now is the time. It's time to jump ALL IN, not just get your feet wet. If you need help reach out to your leaders, we are here for you! If you don't know who you need to contact for what, send me an email and I will direct you: drdaveschwartz@gmail.com

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Blog Entry 3 Stress

Hello Reader

Christopher Lord here and again I am here to continue my series on stress and the human body, specifically how stress negatively impacts body and mind.

In the first entry, I introduced you the pioneer of modern stress research, Dr. Hans Selye. In the second entry, I described one of his greatest contributions- the discovery of the Hypothalamic-Pituitary-Adrenal Axis (aka HPA Axis) which is the network of glands in our bodies that release the hormones in response to stress, the so-called “stress hormones” (adrenalin, noradrenaline and cortisol) which help us in the short term but do not help us long term, in fact they are associated with harm.

So, let me re-state: the “stress response” is not necessarily a bad thing. There are situations when it is a useful and adaptive measure. Let’s take a modern-day example of how the stress response might be a good thing: exercise! Exercise (even low-impact activity) activates the stress response, to help us.   It goes like this: we begin to move more briskly, our bodies and brains detect something is up, the hypothalamus (in our brain) releases a chemical message (called CRH for short) which then tells a nearby part of our brain (the pituitary) to release a chemical message (this one is called ACTH for short) which travels outside the brain through our blood stream to the adrenal glands on top of our kidneys, telling the adrenal glands to release their chemical messengers: adrenaline, noradrenaline and cortisol, aka the stress hormones. What do they do? What are they for?

Adrenaline and noradrenaline go by other names: epinephrine and norepinephrine, which you may have heard of before. These substances are potentially helpful to us because when they are released into the blood stream by the adrenal glands (where the name “adrenaline” comes from) they travel all over the body and do helpful things like increasing our heart rates (so more blood can be brought to vital organs and muscles, bringing sugar and oxygen for cells to use for fuel and also taking away waste products). These compounds also help open up our airways to get more air in our lungs and bloodstream for the same reasons.  Additionally, adrenaline and noradrenaline (aka epinephrine and norepinephrine) cause certain blood vessels to open up (for examples the ones providing the heart) while at the same time causing other blood vessels to get smaller (taking blood away from the organs they supply, temporarily of course, because for instance there is a greater need for blood in the heart, brain and lungs then say the stomach, small and large intestines during a stressful episode). Also, and very importantly, these “stress hormones” are associated with weight loss because they help stimulate the mobilization of fat we have stored in fat cells, which for some is the most sought after benefit of exercise (and side effect of the “stress response”!)  Moreover, adrenaline and noradrenaline also tell our liver to start breaking up the sugar it has stored away for this stressful time, releasing sugar into the blood stream for our cells to use.

What about cortisol? It is the other stress hormone released from the adrenal glands along with adrenaline and noradrenaline. What is it for?   Like noradrenaline, cortisol affects the amount of sugar (glucose) floating around in our bodies for use by our cells.  Specifically, cortisol tells our bodies to make sugars (glucose) out of things we have handy to restore what we have used due to increased need (like in exercise) and what we have used in response to the effects of the other two stress hormones, adrenaline and noradrenaline, which cause our bodies to use up our glucose supplies.

I haven’t told you the whole story by far with regards to what these stress hormones do for us, for example, noradrenaline (aka norepinephrine) has a lot of activity in our brains, and I will spend a portion of future blog entries talking about that specifically.

In short, I wanted to introduce you to the idea that the “stress response” isn’t actually a terrible thing; it is actually helpful/useful and even adaptive for some stressful situations, like exercise. 

In the next blog entries I will go on to discuss in more detail the not-so-helpful, harmful and even maladaptive side of stress and how that looks for body and mind.

Thank you for reading.

God’s peace.

Christopher E Lord

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CHAPTER 20 - RESTORING BROKEN FELLOWSHIP

Relationships are always worth restoring. 

Because life is all about learning how to love, God wants us to value relationships and make the effort to maintain them instead of discarding them whenever there is a rift, a hurt, or a conflict. 

Steps on How to Restore a Relationship

1. Talk to God before talking to the person

2. Always take the initiative 

3. Sympathize with their feelings

4. Confess your part of the conflict

5. Cooperate as much as possible

6. Emphasize reconciliation, not resolution 

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Point to Ponder: Relationships are always worth restoring.

Verse to Remember: "Do everything possible on your part to live in peace with everybody." Romans 12:18 (TEV)

Question to Consider: Who do I need to restore a broken relationship with today?  

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Day 19 - Cultivating Community

**Pastor's Message to come**

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CHAPTER 19 - CULTIVATING COMMUNITY


Community requires commitment.

Only the Holy Spirit can create real fellowship between believers, but he cultivates it with the choices and commitments we make. If you're tired of fake fellowship and you would like to cultivate real fellowship and a loving community in your small group, Sunday school class, and church, you'll need to make some tough choices and take some risks.

Cultivating community takes honesty - You will have to care enough to lovingly speak the truth, even when you would rather gloss over a problem or ignore an issue. Often we know what needs to be said to someone, but our fears prevent us from saying anything.

Cultivating community takes humility - self-importance, smugness, and stubborn pride destroy fellowship faster than anything else.

Cultivating community takes courtesy - courtesy is respecting our differences, being considerate of each other's feelings, and being patient with people who irritate us.

Cultivating community takes confidentiality - having a safe environment of warm acceptance and trusted confidentiality

Cultivating community takes frequency - You must have frequent, regular contact with your group in order to build genuine fellowship.


Point to Ponder: Community requires commitment.


Verse to Remember: "We understand what love is when we realize that Christ gave his life for us. That means we must give our lives for other believers." 1 John 3:16 (GWT)

Question to Consider: How can I help cultivate today the characteristics of real community in my small group and my church?

Monday, March 12, 2012

Day 18 - MUST WATCH!




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CHAPTER 18 - EXPERIENCING LIFE TOGETHER


Life is meant to be shared.

God intends for us to experience life together.  The Bible calls this shared experience fellowship. Today, however, the word has lost most of its biblical meaning. "Fellowship" now usually refers to casual conversation, socializing, food, and fun.

Real fellowship is so much more than just showing up at services. It is experiencing life together. It includes unselfish loving, honest sharing, practical serving, sacrificial giving, sympathetic comforting, and all the other "one another" commands found in the New Testament.

In real fellowship people experience:

Authenticity
Mutuality
Sympathy
Mercy
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Point to Ponder: I need others in my life.


Verse To Remember: "Share each others troubles and problems, and in this way obey the law of Christ" Galatians 6:2 (NLT)


Question to Consider: What one step can I take today to connect with another believer at a more genuine, heart-to-heart level?  

Day 17 - Be a Label Sleuth

Who is joining us tonight for the grocery store tour at the Super Bi-Lo in Matthews?  It is at 6:45pm, come if you are able!  We will be learning the best God foods to buy, comparing prices, and learning how to read labels.  In case you can't make it, I wanted to share a few tips on label reading.  These simple and important steps can have a huge impact on the foods you eat!


4 Steps to Label Reading

#1 - Read the ingredients.  If it has more than 5 ingredients, it's not Food by God.  Don't buy it!  Also, if you can't pronounce or understand what an ingredient is, don't buy it.  Chances are it's a chemical or man-made ingredient.  Write it down and go home to research it before deciding to buy.

#2 - No sugar, No artificial sweeteners.  Sugar is highly inflammatory and is a main contributing factor to diabetes, obesity, and even cancer.  I recommend choosing foods with low-to-no sugar.  And watch out for artificial sweeteners!  Companies are answering the awareness of sugar and disease by removing the sugar and replacing with chemicals like aspartame, sucralose, and saccharin.

#3 - Choose full-fat.  While the fat-free and low-fat craze that started in the 80s still has a hold on the marketing in America, the truth is healthy fat is good for us.  Did you know that good fat has been proven to help you LOSE weight?  Read the label and opt for full-fat options of yogurt, cheese, etc, as long as no bad fats have been added in.

#4 - Is it really Trans-fat Free?  Labeling guidelines allow a product to say it is Trans-fat Free on the label, but still include hydrogenated oils.  How is this possible?  Our government says as long as there is less than 0.5g of trans-fat per serving it can be called Trans-fat Free.  What a joke, right??  Don't pick foods just because the front of the label says it's free of hydrogenated bad oils.  Dive in and investigate, because a lot of foods will have hidden trans fats in their ingredients list.

See you tonight!


Elise, Healing Cuisine

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CHAPTER 17 - A PLACE TO BELONG

You are called to belong, not just believe.

We are created for community, fashioned for fellowship, and formed for a family, and none of us can fulfill God's purposes by ourselves. While your relationship to Christ is personal, God never intends it to be private. In God's family you are connected to every other believer, and we will belong to each other for eternity. The Bible says, "In Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others." Romans 12:5 (NIV)

Why do I need a church family?

1. A church family identifies you as a genuine believer
2. A church family moves you out of self-centered isolation
3. A church family helps you develop spiritual muscle
4. The Body of Christ needs you
5. You will share in Christ's mission in the world
6. A church family will help keep  you from backsliding 

The difference between being a church attender and a church member is commitment. Attenders are spectators from the sidelines; members get involved in the ministry. Attenders are consumers; members are contributors.  The Christian life is more than just commitment to Christ; it includes a commitment to other Christians.

Point to Ponder:I am called to belong, not just believe.

Verse to Remember: "In Christ we who are many form one, body, and each member belongs to all the others" Romans 12:5 (NIV)

Question to Consider:  Does my level of involvement in my local church demonstrate that I love and committed to God's family?

Friday, March 9, 2012

Day 15 - Fitness Program

 Everyone is unique and has different needs but the elements of a well rounded fitness program are consistent with everyone.  The 5 basic elements are:

     1,  Aerobic Exercise - Examples of aerobic exercise includes running, biking, walking, elliptical trainers, swimming or other activities like that.  The purpose of aerobic exercise is to increase the heart and lung efficiency.
     2.  Strength Exercise - Strength exercise is described as toning, weight training, strength training or any other exercise that requires resistance to the muscles during movement.  Strength training makes your muscles stronger, which give them more tone in addition to assisting in maintaining bone strength and bond density.
     3.  Stretching - Stretching increases the range of motion of the muscles and joints.  Flexibility decreases with age and inactivity, so to help maintain our flexibility we need to stretch.
     4.  Core Strength - Core is generally considered the torso area of the body.  Doing  abdominal work to strengthen the core and also doing movement exercise that engage the middle of the body will strengthen the torso area.  This helps in posture and in the bodies ability to use the upper body and lower body independently when needed.
     5.  Balance - We tend to lose our ability to balance as we age and should continue to work on this aspect since it is a daily requirement of movement.


Now that we have established the basic elements of exercise, what does a fitness program look like when we put it all together.  If your goal is to become more healthy and fit, then these are the guidelines to follow:
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     1.  Aerobic exercise needs to be done at least 3 days per week for 30 minutes at a time.
     2.  The strength training should be done 2 - 3 times per week.  It can be done on the same day as your aerobic exercise or different days.
     3.  The other three components can be incorporated within your aerobic and strength program.
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Stretching can be part of a warm-up routine or better yet, part of your cool down.  The core exercises would include working on abdominal strength and can be done in any portion of your exercise program.  Balance can easily be done while strength training by doing some of the arm exercises on one leg, then stand on the other leg.  Balance can also be worked on while doing basic tasks at home while cooking or brushing your teeth.  Try those on one leg, then switch. You will get better, the more you do it.  As with as all the components of exercise, we get stronger the more we do them.  It is the gift we have been given.  As we use our bodies in movement, the body responds in a positive way.

I suggest to everyone, go out, exercise and have fun.

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Sample of a calendar of exercise

Monday-Wednesday-Friday
30 minutes of aerobic exercise, stretching after you are done.

Tuesday-Thursday-Saturday
30 minutes of strength training, working all the major muscle groups of the body.  Incorporate balance and core exercises.

This program takes 3 hours a week, look to carve out 3 hours a week to take care of the body we have been given.


If you have more questions or need specific help,
Call me, Thom
704-332-1081
or email Thomfit@aol.com

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CHAPTER 15 - FORMED FOR GOD'S FAMILY

You were formed for God's family.

God wants a family, and he created you to be a part of it. This is God's second purpose for your life, which he planned before you were born. Every human being was created by God, but not everyone is a child of God. The only way to get into God's family is by being born again into it. You became part of the human family by your first birth, but you become a member of God's family by  your second birth.

The invitation to be part of God's family is universal, but there is one condition: faith in Jesus.


Point to Ponder: I was formed by God's family

Verse to Remember: "His unchanging plan has always been to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ." Ephesians 1:5a(NLT)

Question to Consider: How can I start treating other believers like members of my own family?  

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Day 14 - How Stress Affects Mind and Body


Hello everyone, Christopher Lord here, and I am continuing my series on stress with an emphasis on how stress affects body and mind.

In the previous entry, I introduced you to Dr. Hans Selye, the father of modern research on stress.  Now I want to introduce you to one of his earliest and best-known contributions, the discovery of the organ systems responsible for the human body’s response to stress, the “Hypothalamic-Pituitary-Adrenal Axis”, or “HPA Axis” for short.

It’s a mouthful to be sure, but I hope to make it easily understandable in this entry, and then later dedicate future entries to learning more about the HPA Axis and its’ associations with medical and mental health problems.

Okay, back to Dr. Hans Selye, who was a medical doctor who specialized in endocrinology, which is the branch of medicine concerned with organs (called glands) that make a substance (called a hormone) which is then released into the body where it has an effect somewhere else.  A classic example of a gland is the pancreas, which makes insulin used by all cells of your body to get sugar inside for fuel.

It was Dr. Selye’s hope and wish to discover the mechanism by which the human body dealt with stress, again defined as "any event which may make demands upon the organism, and sets in motion a non-specific bodily response which leads to a variety of temporary or permanent physiological or structural changes".

He did this by studying mice (which are used because they have organ systems a lot like our own) and repeatedly saw that the result of stress to these animals was the build-up of certain glands and hormones, the same hormones in fact, no matter what the stress was.  With a lot more careful work, he was able to see that the final hormone that he gathered was one called “cortisol” and two others “adrenaline” and “noradrenaline”, all of which have come to be called the “stress hormones”.

Back again to this thing called the HPA Axis, which I will write more and more about in future entries.  The “H” in HPA stands for Hypothalamus, which is a gland in our brain that does lots of stuff, via inputs from the eyes, ears, nose and skin it is part of our brain’s response to the environment. The “P” stands for Pituitary, which is another gland in our brain that communicates with the Hypothalamus and the Adrenal gland, which is the “A” in HPA Axis.  The word “Axis” refers to the name we give all the players involved in this system, which has been called the “stress response” or stress cascade”.

Let’s put it all together: we experience “stress” through our senses (sight, sound, touch, taste, smell) which are relayed by whatever sensory organ that perceived it to our brain. One target for that information is the Hypothalamus, who then upon being triggered sends a chemical message (hormone) to the nearby Pituitary gland (also in our brain) who then sends a hormone to the distant Adrenal glands (which sits on top of each of our kidneys) which then responds by releasing chemical messengers- the so-called “stress hormones”- cortisol, adrenaline and noradrenaline, which initially produce helpful effects- for example increasing blood flow to certain areas, increasing heart output, allowing extra sugar in the blood stream to be used for this “emergency”- whatever stress our body perceived.

The big deal is this “stress cascade” or “stress response” is not inherently a bad thing, but it’s only for short-term/temporary use, to respond to some crisis, then it’s supposed to turn off and go away until needed again later.

The bad thing (in the form of medical and mental health problems) is when this “stress response” or “stress cascade” is always on, because the “stress hormones” cause high wear and tear to our systems, or as Dr. Selye put it, the stress hormones cause “temporary or permanent physical changes” in us that can be potentially life threatening medical and mental health conditions.

More to come!

Thank you for reading

Christopher E Lord

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CHAPTER 14 - WHEN GOD SEEMS DISTANT

God is real, no matter how you feel. 

It is easy to worship God when things are going great in your life -- when he has provided food, friends, family, health, and happy situations. But circumstances are not always pleasant. How do you worship God then? What do you do when God seems a million miles away? 

The deepest level of worship is praising God in spite of pain, thanking God during a trial, trusting him when tempted, surrendering while suffering, and loving him when he seems distant.  

How do you praise God when you don't understand what's happening in your life and God is silent?
  • Tell God exactly how you feel 
  • Focus on who God is -- his unchanging nature
  • Trust God to keep his promises.  
  • Remember what God has already done for you 
 Point to Ponder: God is real, no matter how I feel.

Verse to Remember: "For God has said, "I will never leave you; I will never abandon you.'". Hebrews 13:5

Question to Consider:   How can I stay focused on God's presence, especially when he feels distant?

Do you praise God in both of these situations?